Comments found on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WVLZXLyO-M 20 Signs You Are With A "Covert" Narcissist Narcissists and YOUR RESPONSE! n. p. 1 year ago Oh my god. You are describing every detail of my ex's "characteristics". He is a domestic and child assault offender, on an ankle bracelet and a restraining order, but tells anyone who will listen about his sob story...why he's a victim, how the arrest affected him, and nothing but lies about his arrest. Sad and frustrating when his act is taken seriously. Maggie Carpenter 1 year ago (edited) If you can't run from a covert narc (CN), well, you're eff'd. In the meantime, develop a VERY good memory; be very skilled in the conversation; don't let the CN confuse you with his tantrums; and don't let your emotions overwhelm you during communication. These are your "shields" that will allow you to stay grounded; avoid being traumatized; a...