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20 Signs You Are With A "Covert" Narcissist

Narcissists and YOUR RESPONSE!

n. p.1 year ago

Oh my god. You are describing every detail of my ex's "characteristics". He is a domestic and child assault offender, on an ankle bracelet and a restraining order, but tells anyone who will listen about his sob story...why he's a victim, how the arrest affected him, and nothing but lies about his arrest. Sad and frustrating when his act is taken seriously.

Maggie Carpenter1 year ago (edited)

If you can't run from a covert narc (CN), well, you're eff'd. In the meantime, develop a VERY good memory; be very skilled in the conversation; don't let the CN confuse you with his tantrums; and don't let your emotions overwhelm you during communication. These are your "shields" that will allow you to stay grounded; avoid being traumatized; and avoid thinking YOU may be the insane one. One way you can disarm a CN is by putting the CN on the "witness stand" when he tries his tricks on you, because he will. They are big opportunists too.

You are describing my mother. She is a real master, she manipulated you in to thinking really wired things. She can get my brother and I thinking awful things about each other. We are

now both clear on that she does. My brother talk to her, then he calls each me to confirm what is real. I don't have any contact with her any more. (this was posted by Pia Kristina Lobenvein)

This is the perfect description for the Curious Case of the Homeless One! 

Every word is confirmation of what we have endured! 

UnConditionalLove Berni1 second ago

Dear Richard, we still recovering from our encounter with the covert narcissist and everything you are saying is spot on, here's the thing, I had her pegged for Personality Defiance Disorder, this is the almighty name for a kids throwing their toys out the cot, then throwing themselves on the floor in supermarkets and finally the silent dead stare from a 12 year old. 4% will carry this into their adult lives, science or psychology, has no medical name for this, what is happening is through sheer self will this now adult has refused authority, rules and regulations and in defiance remains a child. This Covert Narc that we are still trying to evict from our lives refuses to work. She is adamant that she will not work. She is constantly sick, exhausted, tired and always at the hospital getting free medication. She engages in in depth conversations with herself and takes great pleasure in sarcastic chirps, snaps, retorts! She thinks she is superior and must be served. She was quite honestly a nightmare! Thank you for the information, this was so insightful.

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Unconditional love means I love you no matter what, but that does not give you license to abuse my charity, my kindness, my tolerance, my acceptance, my kindness! Love demands respect. Respect for myself! I am not a doormat! Anyone who openly disrespects me, must understand that the law of attraction demands that you reap what you sow! if you sow anger......well just look at the world! Unconditional love kept me calm, focused and fair in my response. I did not cower. I did not feel anger, I pointed out that she instigated the entire mess that led to her finding herself homeless again. Do not respond to their baiting, they want to trap you in their baiting you. Don't be afraid of the Narcissist......love wins over negativity always! Where there is Light, there is no Darkness! 

Be the Light and shine on....